getting unstuck at work
when a job doesn’t feel right it is time for a transition and this is made harder when it coincides with kids fledging the nest
aligndwell partners with a
social worker pivoting professionally and mom in a whirlwind of change
it was time for a change
I had reached a maximum point of growth in my current position, and it was time for a change. I was experiencing all of the difficult emotions that can surface before a much needed change: loneliness, isolation, hopelessness, frustration and even sadness. I realize now those were fantastic messengers to get my attention.
One terrific colleague connected the dots, and recommended Erica knowing I needed a fresh external perspective, a ‘doer’ persona, and a strong partner to make this big leap with me.
a deep life transition
I hesitated in investing in a coaching resource when my job security was unclear. Additionally I wasn’t sure how Erica felt about working with folks in personal transitions that were career-centered. But, I went with my gut. And the gut always knows! I made a clear description of my need and left it to Erica to decide. This wasn’t a concern–her heart is gold, and she sees past the categories (work, family, etc.) into what is really occurring: a deep life transition. She also understands the emotional side of being a parent and how this colors our work choices and work lives. This was critical to me since I have made a career that supports my work/life balance, consciously.
“I felt that Erica met me and my real-honest-me without judgment, which is important to me.”
moving through what was happening
What was great was when Erica pivoted quickly with me when the shit hit the fan, and I got all these interview invites. So that helped me not feel stuck because Erica was helping me move through what was happening.
All the while, Erica was able to shine a light forward on the path and the fact that I might not get any of the jobs–and that I would be okay. I might be unemployed, and I would be in an exploration mode and it would be okay and interesting. It would be my journey.
I felt like she was able to help me not keep my fears to myself. I really needed someone to say to me, you might not get these jobs. That was really good for me to hear because it calmed me throughout the process. Which is weird. It's like the opposite of what you might think.
My life has been hugely improved by her services. I feel more rooted in myself and able to have boundaries with my work. I also feel that I could choose other industries and career paths and be okay.
I love that I'm thinking a lot about life transitions. It is something that I feel Erica has created space for and I do not know if this all could have happened at another time.
